My Story
Hi! I’m Guillaume Cosquer, I grew up in France. After my studies I moved to Belgium where I have been working for the past 10 years as an aeronautical design engineer. I have always succeeded professionally, but not always personally…
On a personal level, I suffered from a lack of self-confidence and self-esteem, and relationships were very difficult for me at that time.
I met someone, I was in a relationship for 7 years, we lived together, it was good but not extraordinary. I told myself that the perfect person didn’t exist, that I wouldn’t find anyone better, that it wasn’t so bad. So I stayed in the relationship and we came to a point where marriage was the logical next step…
I felt more and more alone and unhappy because deep down I was not sure, I had so many doubts. One day I felt like it was the right thing to do, the next day it was not. The relationship was not very supportive either, so I isolated myself and slipped into darkness.
We had planned the whole wedding, booked everything and the COVID made us postpone the date that gave me more time for what happened next…
My ex went to see a coach for a professional goal, she was satisfied with the results and recommended it to me. I didn’t know about coaching so I never took the appointment and on my 30th birthday she offered me a 1st session with this coach for me to get better…
My coach gave me a clearer vision of what I was missing and what was most important to me. She advised me to write and express my feelings. She also did say:
I learned so much about myself, I realized that I didn’t even know what was most important to me and my needs. In fact, it was all covered with protections, wounds from the past and taking care too much of other people.
Coaching has been an adventure and a difficult journey, but I’ve learned so much. We focused on me. I have improved so much in most areas of life, my emotions and health have improved, I have got closer to my family, friends and met great new people.
I then continue to respect myself and take care much more of my needs and my own life. A distance with my ex came up. There were still this domain of life that I paused and did not took care during coaching…
The wedding was still 6 months away. I wrote and thought a lot about whether I should break up with her or not. I should have discussed about it with her from the start, but I couldn’t do it at that time. One evening, she happened to read some of the doubts I’d written. It was really painful moment but necessary.
I took some space and thought about it, I made the decision to end the relationship because I realized she wasn’t able to naturally give me what I really needed and deserved.
This decision was one of the most difficult and, at the same time, one of the best of my life. I learned from the experience and vowed that it would never happen again. In the months that followed, I rebuilt myself and started fresh. I kept learning about personal growth and use coaching tools to picture my “perfect” match.
I went out and met other people and one evening I met her, the woman I’d been hoping for and dreaming about, I didn’t need many dates to recognize her, to know that it would work out well together.
The relationship is so great that it exceeds all expectations. We are so happy and got married. Right now, I feel so peaceful and happy. No more doubts, no more feelings of loneliness.
I’ve noticed that so many people are suffering, lost in their lives, unhappy in their relationships. I came up with the idea of helping at my turn… I enrolled in the same school as my coach. The aim was to master coaching. I learned everything I needed to know about people and coaching. I graduated with honors and now I know a lot of powerful tools.
It has also helped me to continue to develop myself and those around me. I gained a lot of self-confidence along the way.
Coaching has changed my life for the better. I’ve had a real breakthrough.
I know it works very well and I’m now on a mission to help people, share my knowledge and support them.
